Sunday, November 8, 2009
Break Time
Friday, October 16, 2009
Kacang Cendol after School
Thursday, October 15, 2009
My Classmates and Teachers from Catholic Englsh Primary School
Saturday, October 10, 2009
Primary Prime Times - Sister Eulalia
Did Lawrence Chin Cry on the 1st Day of School?
"When I looked at your blog and some of the events that others brought up in the StJoeForm5(1976) blog, I am amazed with the long term memory you and the others have. I have images of the past, but the details are extremely (and I mean extremely fuzzy).
But one detail that I know for sure ----- I DID NOT CRY ON MY FIRST DAY IN SCHOOL !!!! This record must be sealed in the history book.
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Cry Babies Of Primary 1
When I was six years old I was totally envious of Piruz and Betty. I watched them go to play school while I stayed home. PLAY school!! Can you believe their luck, they got to go to school to PLAY with other children while I stayed at home.
Each morning I would watch Betty and Piruz getting ready for school, showered, combed, dressed in very neat school uniforms and clean white shoes. I would wait for them to come home and after what seemed like forever, they would be back, completely dishevel, their uniforms soiled and shoes dirtied. They were sweaty and smelly too that mum would say '..bau boyak...' (smell like crocodile). At the time I wondered who would dare to get close enough to smell the crocodile.
They must have had so much fun and play at school to come back looking and smelling like that.
There were a few play schools - the one at the surau next door to ours, at the ‘balai raya’ next to Sekolah Gita, Cikgu Lily play school at Rubber Road that we knew as 'sekolah chicha (teacher) Lily'; the Nanyang Kindergarden, etc. There was a Cikgu Patong too. Anyway there were many choices of play schools and plenty of crying kids too I heard.
But I did not get to go to PLAY school. Instead I was pre-schooled at home by mum for primary 1. She was very protective over me (hehe..reminds me of Hassan Mak Lamah).
In January 1966 I finally went to primary 1 in Catholic English Primary School. The school uniform, the bata shoes and socks were ready one week before school started. I waited nervously for one week for school to start. Of course I tried the uniforms over and over again. I think they were light blue shirt and short with a red necktie. The bata shoes was white canvass with the green 'worm or noodle like' rubber sole. Dad also bought the round white chalk, wrapped in paper, for us to chalk our shoes while it was still wet after washing them.
Up very early at dawn and after a warm bath, mixing a kettle of boiling water with a bucket of cold tap water, I was ready in my school uniform which was so crisp from the starch that forced your body stiff and upright. It took me a while before I learn to fix the neck tie and the shoe laces myself. Dad gave up fixing my necktie that he bought the tie that I can just hooked to my collar.
Typically breakfast was bread with butter or planta and thick kopi susu instead of milo (to keep us awake mum said). The bread or 'roti paun' was the pineapple brand, baked at a particular shop in Green Road. Piruz and I can easily finish one whole loaf of bread between us if given the chance. My grandma used to say we can eat '...sampei becah perut...' and sometime she did not use the word 'eat' in our context but the phrase '...ngisik kedabang bubus...' I really do not know what language that was, 'terms of endearment' regarding our hearty appetite I am sure. hehehe...
Piruz, Betty and I would ride with dad on his bicycle from home to Satok wooden suspension bridge. It was a Raleigh of England and they were called 'basikal unta' or 'basikal gentleman'. Crossed the bridge and from there dad drove us to school in our white austin mini minor. The car had to be parked on the other side of the river as the bridge can only carry pedestrians, bicycles and motorcycles. We would all help wiped the dews off the car every morning with old towels, the yellow or blue cotton cloth sold at Shell stations.
For a 7 year old on his first day to school, crossing the Satok suspension bridge stepping on the wooden planks was very nervy. There were big gaps between the planks all the way across the river, and some of the planks were loose. You can see the Sarawak river flowing right beneath your feet as you crossed the bridge. And the bridge would sway from the movement of so many people crossing the bridge at the same time.
Catholic English Primary School is at Green Road, a simple single story, L-shaped building. Its walls were made of concrete (up to three feet high) and wood; and the dark grey roof of belian shingles. There were only six class rooms (primary one to six), a teachers room, the joint clerk and principle's office. There was a cement corridor in front of the offices and the class rooms; where we usually lined up to enter class. The small canteen was separated from the school block.
On arrival at the school that day I was greeted by a riot of crying children, a chaotic scene of parents carrying book lists and buying school books and stationaries, teachers sorting out sitting arrangements and the bigger kids running around and greeting each other after the long school holidays. There was just so much noise!
Suddenly, my hands refused to listen to the macho me and started to grip my dad's hands tightly, clinging to his legs and trying to hide behind him. Dad brought me into this scary room full of sobbing children and their parents. Suddenly a bell began to ring deafeningly for a couple of minutes and the parents stood up and started to leave the room. This seemed to signal a spontaneous increase in the sobbing and crying to a crescendo of screams and wailings. It was no orchestra I assure you! It was pure mayhem.
But I did not cry. Really, I was that close to crying but held back the tears that was swelling in ever so slowly. Nope, the tears were held back. I can imagine my late, fearsome tatooed Iban and Scottish grandparents in 'cawats' and 'skirts'..oops...I mean kilts, scowling in heaven at the sight of me crying. Hehehe...bet you do not believe me.
I remember sitting in class on a small wooden chair behind an equally small desk while dad went to buy my books, colour pencils, school badge and other stationaries. Despite being surrounded by crying kids and adults standing by the door and the windows, I realized I was sitting next to a cute little girl who was not crying. Catholic English Primary School is a mix boys and girls school. There was no chance of me crying after that.
I also noticed a boy, who was bigger then the rest of us, teasing some of kids, making them cry even louder. The boy later became a very close friend of mine in primary school. Khoon Haw was taller then most of us, has thick straight hair that stood up, chubby smiling face, and always showing us his kung fu skills. We played sword fights with our bare arms and he was the champion! He was also my stamp collecting kaki. He definitely did not cry on the first day.
The Chin cousins - Lawrence, Mark and Robert, who lived right across the street from the school. We used to envy them going back home during recess and able to rush home to fetch books and stuff that they forgot. They were not only very good in their studies but were also very good 'rounders' players. Lawrence was the undisputed No 1 in class every term exam and was always the most neatly dressed boy in class. But did they cry on that first day in school? Hmmmm....maybe, maybe not...hehe
I could not remember the names of any of the girls in primary school except for one or two. There was Annie Wong, who I recognized was very pretty (hehehe), she had very fair skin, sharp features, and her pony tail. And Josephine Ng, who is the twin sister of Simon Ng, a very serious and studious girl in class.
By around 11am, dad came back to the classroom with the text books, writing books, drawing book, color pencils, etc. I did not have my school bag that day and had to help dad carry some of the stuff home. My first day in Catholic English Primary School came to an end, and boy was I glad to leave the crying room. I wondered when would all the playing begin because school did not seem like child play to me.
I was excited and cannot wait to be home to show mum my books, color pencils, etc. We reached the bridge, dad parked the car and off we go across the bridge. I was nervous and kept looking down at the river flowing below. Despite walking ever so carefully, I dropped my brand new box of color pencils and saw them spilling and dropping into the river below. I was on my knees on the planks, grappling to save them, my very first set of color pencils. But most of them fell into the river. I was barely seven years old, on my first day at school, smaller then Adam is now, distraught, crying and tugging on dad to do something. To get the boat that was by the river bank and recover my color pencils. I was crying uncontrollably. I cried all the way home and was so sad that I could not eat lunch.
Dad bought me a new set of color pencils the next day. This time I had all my stuff packed in my school bag, a green canvass sling bag with metal buckles.
Technically I did not cry on my first day in school; I cried on the Satok bridge..:)
Saturday, October 3, 2009
Hassan Mak Lamah
Monday, September 28, 2009
The titi dwellers
Meantime thank God the mysterious titi dwellers are extinct!
(My editor has a real job now working with an oil and gas company, but I do not need to remind her that she is still bonded to her father and needs to edit this posting. Till then ignore the 'england mistakes' or titi dwellers will visit you...hehehe..bye)
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Raya Mischiefs
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Selamat Hari Raya 4 - Berjarah Raya (Raya Visitng)
Everything that happened in posa month, all the fun, hype and activities led to the finale on raya morning. I can never get enough sleep on raya eve due to anxiety, but would still wake up in high spirits. We would normally be up on raya morning around 6.30am and waking us up on raya mornings was definitely easier then waking us up for school. We would be flocked off to the 'bilik mandi' which was a small outhouse made of zinc roof and zinc walls. Within that zinc bath house was a large rectangular cement 'tangki' where water is stored. I remember it was usually mum who gave us our baths; green milo tins and red or blue plastic cans called 'gayong' were used to dip into the the tangki and splash us with the icy cold water. If left to our own devices the shower would be invariably short and swift, 'mandi burung' my parents would say (literally translated to mean bird bath). With mum in charge we would get a full lather of soap and body scrubbing which would leave our skin pink and smarting.
Dressing up and getting into the new yellow, orange or brown teluk belanga took no time at all, right down to tying the 'samping', socks and shoes, topi melayu on our head and a face dabbed with Cuticura or Johnson baby powders. Sometimes when we overdo the powder part, my grandma would remark: 'macam tikus masuk dalam tepung'. Freshly showered, fresh faced and dressed in refreshingly coloured teluk belanga, I would be ready and waiting for the ride to the state mosque for raya prayers from uncle Kamarudin.
We lived next to the kampung's surau and my dad would be at the surau very early. I remember the surau was an elongated rectangular shaped building, made of wooden planks, painted blue with dark belian shingle roofs. The kampung folk would turn up at surau in droves, all dressed in teluk balangas in different colours and shades. The teenage boys and girls would sell stickers to collect funds for charity. Most homes would also have sent food to the surau for those who wished to have raya breakfast at the surau after raya prayers. Straw 'tikar golong' (rolled mats) used for prayers would have been rolled out since the night before to be ready for prayers.
My uncle however, would come to get me on his motorbike (I am trying remember the name of his bike) and we would head to 'masjid negri' in town instead. I remember the original masjid negri had a huge dark dome and that it was demolished some time in the late 60s (or it could be early 70s). The current masjid was built on the exact site.
The masjid negri still sits majestically on top of a small hill, surrounded by the cemetery where Muslims from the time of Raja Muda Hashim or earlier have been buried. The masjid is right by the Sarawak river next to Brooke Dockyard and Engineering Works (BDEW) where my dad worked and retired as the Superintendant. We visited BDEW many times while growing up; most of my dad's colleagues knew us by name, watched us grew up and kept tabs with how we did in school etc. I remember tales of spirits and yellow mud thrown from the adjacent cemetery in the middle of the nights. There was a case of a security guard at BDEW known as Pak Assan who fell sick after one such incident because he went to check and touched the mud.
In front of the masjid negri stood an old wooden shop, kedai Haji Sihat, selling an assortment of curry powders and traditional Sarawak malay kuihs like 'penyaram', 'jala', 'sarang semut', 'edam', 'kuih sepit', 'kuih cina', etc. The old wooden shop is still there today and still looked as old and decrepit as it did forty years ago. The curry powder from that shop is renown till today, I remember my family referring to the 'kari munggu kubur' (munggu kubur means cemetery). My uncle would usually park his motorbike next to the 'kari munggu kubur' shop and we would walk the short distance up the small hill, through the cemetery and reciting 'Al Fatihah' as 'sedekah' to the 'penduduk kubur'.
Uncle Kamarudin is mum's eldest brother among seven siblings. There is a younger brother name Shah Jahan, who later studied medicine in Canada and migrated there. There were five sisters - Zamrud the eldest aunty, the late Mummy Esah who lived in Singapore who was such a lovable aunty, my mother - Chi Mohidin and her two younger sisters Mak Tuyah who later married and moved to Labuan, Usu Misiah who married and moved to Singapore. Usu Misiah is the mother of the singer actor Maizurah Hamzah (my closest claim to celebrity).
Anyway, as the eldest brother my uncle would be addressed as Abang Kamarudin by his siblings. Somehow for reasons I cannot remember, the nephews and nieces, all grew up referring to him as Abang Kamarudin. Today, our children, nephews and nieces would refer to him as 'Cik Bang', short for Pakcik Abang Kamarudin. Abang kamarudin worked in the government clinic in Kuching, now renamed Polikinik, as a senior attendant and was the union leader; Secretary General I think. He was very popular in the kampung and even dispensed vitamins and maybe even tablets and creams for simple fevers, headaches, rashes etc.
After raya prayers, it was customary for Abang Kamarudin and I to go visit my aunty and grand aunt who lived in Kampung Muda Hashim, on our way back from town. 'Berjarah raya' as we refer to these visits in Sarawak would begin immediately after the raya prayers. Berjarah (or Berziarah, as it is actually called in Malay) is the form of greeting among Malays where we would extend both hands and we 'berjarah' instead of the handshake in western society. Berjarah with our elders would involve us bowing and kissing their hands too. 'Berjarah' with the parents and grandparents usually involves them sitting on a chair, and the children or grandchildren would bow to kiss their hands and knees as we 'berjarah'. I cannot recall my children berjarah with me this raya, much less kissing my hands and knees...Hmmmm!
[Editor's note: I beg to differ, I tried to berjarah with you first thing in the morning but you told me to check on Adam's teluk belanga. I did manage to catch you later in the day, though.]
Abang Kamarudin and I usually concluded our 'berjarah' and arrived home by about 11am. At each relative's house that we visited we would have been feted with ketupat, lemang and fizzy drinks. That would not stop me dipping into mum's cooking as soon as I reached home. However the raya breakfast for the family cannot happen till after we 'berjarah' with grandma, mum and dad and asking for forgiveness for all the things we have done wrong over the last one year.
Usually by this time we would already have guests flocking to our home by the droves. They customarily arrive just as mum finished cutting the raya cakes and displaying them on trays and plates on the table along with the curries and the rest of the feast. The first batch of visitors would normally be my dad's staff from BDEW and their families.
Lucas and his wife and sons from Matang would always be the first. Lucas,was a very cheerful, chirpy man with a ready smile and a good hearty laugh. He had a distinct voice and spoke extremely fluent Malay. He was a very close friend of my late father and would come visit my dad long after they had both retired. The big Peter Chin and his family was another colleague of my dad who never missed raya at our house. I remember Peter Chin as a big guy with a gentle and quiet demeanour. His sons and daughters were also quite tall and big.
Then we had a contractor friend, Kho Kak Beng, who would never fail to come berjarah raya. As I recalled Kho Kak Beng was a small contractor providing manual labourers 'banging' on the rusty ships hulls that docked at BDEW. BDEW was a dry dock and ships would be steered into the dock, propped with bako woods on all side before the river water was drained out of the dock. The process of dry docking ships were a treat to my brothers and sisters. Kho Kak Beng is now a major corporate businessman with a company carrying his initials, KKB Bhd, now listed on the KLSE mainboard. There were many more colleagues and friends of all races from BDEW, PWD, DID, Marine Department, etc that would come berjarah raya at our house at No. 35, Jalan Bunga Rose, Kampong Gita.
The hustle and bustle of serving dad's staff and friends would be over by late afternoon. Then it would be the kids turn to go berjarah raya. Berjarah raya in the kampung for me would entail a group of friends of about the same age (between 7 to 10 years old) from the neighbourhood. We berjarah to almost ALL the houses in the kampung till late at night everyday for the whole of raya week.
We went berjarah street by street in the kampung - Jalan Bunga Rose, Jalan Bunga Cempaka, Bunga Kenanga, Bunga Raya, Bunga Teratai, etc. It did not matter whether we knew the families of the houses that we visited but after a few years of doing this I came to know most of the population of Kampong Gita anyway. Likewise, we welcomed everyone with open arms whether they knew us or otherwise. The process of getting to know will follow thereafter.
Usually the elders would ask us "kitak anak sapa?" (who are your parents?) and every family in the Kampung would know my family and would exclaimed...'Oh anak Bujang Macpherson dengan Chi' or '..cucuk Hj Smah'. Till today if I return to my kampung and stop by the masjid (the then surau) next to my house most of the elders would still fondly remember us when we were kids.
Neighbours and family members from afar would continue to berjarah during the later part of the raya week and sometimes the whole raya month of shawal. The practise of berjarah raya is still alive but probably not exactly the same as it was when I was an eight or ten year old boy. It would be unthinkable to allow our children to roam freely all day long till late at night, going house to house, in view of the security risks. But then I admit that raya really is special to kids of all ages.
However I am glad we still practise opening our doors on raya day to staff and friends of all race and religion. My first day raya spread in KL now still includes chicken curry, beef and mutton rendang, dhal, ketupat, satay and lemang PLUS our very own Laksa Sarawak! No berjarah for the kids though; except for Nabiya and Marko who spent their second day raya onward in Kampung Gita this year.
Selamat Hari Raya and do come berjarah raya!
(I wish my 'dependable' editor is back from berjarah raya in Kuching)
[Editor's note: Better late than never, papa, I'm back... didn't get much duit raya this year though... heh heh]
Monday, September 21, 2009
Selamat Hari Raya Part 3 - Raya Shopping and Petang Raya Phenomena
Long before Ngiu Kee and Electra House, my parents would proudly shop from nothing less then The Sarawak Trading Company. I presume The Sarawak Trading Company must have been a purveyor of high quality items as mum would vouch for the quality of the imported leather footwear and apparel from England.
Baju melayu or 'baju teluk belanga' proudly tailored in Kampong Gita would be the primary apparel for raya. The teluk belangas came in the colours of the rainbow and more. The men and their sons of each family would usually have their teluk belangas in matching colours. Dad, Piruz and I were no exception. Different colours each year. The shopping for songkok or 'topi melayu' as we called it in kuching then would be from India Street and usually during the last few days of posa.
The shopping expeditions for raya clothes would normally be completed as early as one to two weeks before raya. The teluk belangas on the other hand were often delivered on raya eve itself. On one or two occasions they were even delivered on raya morning itself. There were just not enough tailors in the kampong to cope with all the orders for baju kurungs and teluk belangas.
Our raya shopping trips would bring us to India Street, Ngiu Kee in Electra house, Khoo Hun Yeang Street and also Carpenter Street. Years later it would lead us to Sin Ah and Jen Hing tailors. I recall having a woollen t-shirt with red and black stripes, a brown cotton shirt with a printed motif that I remember was so comfortable. Chequered shirts in strong red, green or blue were my mum's favourite choices for me and cotton shorts in various colours. Our raya attire would not be completed without socks and black or dark leather laced shoes. Mum took pride in her taste and choice of clothings for us, remarking that we were always outstanding. Mother's love!
How I wish I had as strong a say in my children's dressing as my mother had over ours. I often jest about my son Mark's loose jeans which would drop below his hips and the boxers showing. Arrrrgh!!!! And kids these days would prefer tattered converse canvass shoes over a black leather pair. My sons Mark and Adam would have their own say over their haircut and styles too. In contrast when I was their age, I had no say at all. Haircuts would mean trips to the village barber, Pak Tinggal, whose wooden 'salon' was located next to bicycle shop at the junction near teh entrance to Kampung Gita. I guess times are different and I have to move on, unwillingly.
The first pair of long trousers I owned were a grey slack pair which my parents bought for me for raya in 1973, matched with a white long sleeve cotton shirt with two pockets. I can still recollect putting them on every night before raya. Hands in the pockets, admiring myself in the mirror from all angles. Man, I was hip personified...hehehehe!! And my first jeans were a pair of TEXWOOD, when I was in form three! I could not afford an AMCO. AMCO was The brand of jeans then! I do believe my sister Betty had a red or maroon corduroy AMCO. Well, I could not resist the AMCO temptation and did 'curi pakai'. Sneakers came in the form of North Star from Bata at the time. No adidas for me until I was in university, purchased with my first scholarship funds.
As posa came to a close the whole cycle of activities like visiting and cleaning the cemetaries; watching the 'anak bulan', declarations of raya by the 'mohor', beating of the 'bedok', etc started all over again. This time around the beatings of the bedok would normally have a much more upbeat mood to it. Either that or it was probably just the raya mood.
A chore assigned to me on the eve of raya was to catch the chickens and bring them to the 'tok imam' to be slaughtered. Part and parcel of that responsibility was holding the chicken while the tok imam conducted the ritual. There was a year when the 'mohor' only announced at 10pm that raya was the next day while most people had anticipated that raya would fall a day later. There was complete pandemonium, chickens being rounded up and brought to the 'tok imam'. Imagine the ruckus that ensued, chickens everywhere in the middle of the night.
The three chinese shops in the kampong normally closed by 8pm. But on that occasion it had to be reopened till well passed midnight to sell curry powders, coconut cream and assorted condiments. It was quite a scene at Chop Hap Joo, one of the three shops; the kampong folk lining up with their 555 book at midnight racking up stuff at the last minute.
These three shops played quite a part in the lives of the kampong folk. The shopkeepers who went by the names of Hap Joo, Teng Wak and Oh Nga, regularly donated to the kampong folk during weddings, funerals, and to the surau during rayas, awal muharam, mauludil rasul or maulud nabi as we called the occasion then.
Hap Joo in particular, also provided employments to the handicap youths in the kampong, as delivery boys or shop assistants. There was a particular deaf and mute chap, that stood out, whom I remembered only as 'Mat Bebek'; an extremely pleasant boy who delivered rice, sugar, flour, groceries and gas tanks.
Preparing the home and getting it squeaky clean and ready to receive guests on raya day was tough work but amidst the raya songs playing on the radio and the 'takbir' from the surau next door made all the hard work fun. Polishing the wooden floors and stairs with wax and coconut husk brushes was something I remember doing on nights before raya. The ladies would be busy with new curtains to be fixed and new cushion covers to be fitted. And of course the familiar smell of fresh paint which stemmed from mum's hobby to paint the house, especially the living room for raya. Until today I still associate the smell of fresh paint to raya.
Mum and Nek Smah would be busy till late into the night cooking for raya. There were some serious cookings that went on before raya then. Our raya spread would typically be chicken curry, beef kurma, mutton dhal cha, yogurt (tairu) salads, sweet pineapple chutney. Just as well that raya is only once a year because the amount of ghee that went into the dishes and the 'nasi minyak could send one's cholesterol and blood pressure sky high. In addition we would have lemangs, Hj Samat's satay (or my grand uncle's Wa Mat's satay), plain and glutinous rice ketupats, biscuits and assorted cakes. Fizzy drinks, carbonated drinks that came in various labels -aeroplane, ships, etc - which were replaced in later years by Green Spot and then the F&N range, Coca Cola, etc.
Sparklers or bunga api, firecrackers especially the 'mercun padi' ruled the night of raya. All these sparkling fires and fireworks added more colours to the already wonderland of rainbow coloured bulbs that decked the houses and streets lined with pelitas and decorated archways. Rising above the din of the meriam buluhs, bustling sounds of excited children and harried adults was the nostalgic takbir raya which signalled raya has finally arrived...."Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar......Allaaahu Akbar; Allaahu Akbar Wallillah hilham...."
It would be well past midnight before we slept, our raya baju all neatly laid out ready to be worn next morning. I suspected the ladies would continue cooking way pass midnight perhaps till 3 or 4 in the morning.
To be continued...with berjarah raya.
Apologies for grammatical errors as my 'editor' is still on raya leave in Kampung Gita. Inaccurate information is entirely due to my memory failure.
[Editor's note: The editor was able to refresh her own memories of the beloved Kampong Gita over the past week, and managed to visit Hap Joo (though his daughter now mans the shop) for fizzy drinks and 20cent ice-cream with Azie]